Big fluffy cardigan

Big fluffy cardigan
Big fluffy cardigan

It was a cold, cold day when I met Janna (Timelessstyle.nl on Instagram) in the most expensive street in Amsterdam, the PC Hooftstraat. The cold made me choose my big fluffy cardigan, the thickest one and the cardigan I never wear. Apart from the recent bright pink one, I do not own more cardigans. Not my thing. My body shape isn’t right for cardigans. And the fact that they leave your belly and stomach on show, is another minus.

Janna wanted to go into the expensive stores and as we are not the kind of customers they like and want, we thought it would be better to go in together.
I have to say, the staff were really friendly, helpful and kind. Which is a miracle as you only have to look at my shoes (Ecco) and bag to know there is no way I can or want to afford these luxury goods.

Below: We had to warm up in café Georgette with cappuccino first before we ventured out into the cold to take photos. Later on we had lunch there as well. It wasn’t as stuck-up as I thought it would be. Well, the customers were New Money but friendly but our interactions were friendly with a few of them. (I have a chip on my shoulder about rich people; cannot help it, big prejudice.) The restaurant staff was friendly.

Big fluffy cardigan at restaurant George

Below: In front of the Gucci shop. Without coat; I know you appreciate this effort.
The brooch is by Essentiel Antwerp and a couple of years old. It is a dollar sign in the colours of the cardigan. The latter was the reason why I chose it, but in hindsight, the dollar sign is quite funny, taking this expensive shopping street into account.

Big fluffy cardigan

Below: I put my coat back on as we went into the Gucci shop, so not looking the part haha.
Pointing at a tiny snakeskin bag with a bamboo handle. Cute, useless and most likely totally overpriced.

Bags at Gucci

Below: The clothes were on the first floor so up we went. Fabulous stairs. The walls were velvet.

Stairs at Gucci

Below: This is an iconic Gucci dress. It is too classic for my taste but I do like it.

At Gucci

Below: The black floral shirt reminded me of a similar one by Moschino, which I owned when I was 36 or so. At the time I could just about afford it as it was Prêt-à-porter and the Moschino brand wasn’t as ridiculously expensive as it is now.

At Gucci

Below: Gucci’s first floor with clothes for women. What you see hanging above and below were the only garments on this floor. Plus, not a customer in sight. As I said, the staff was really friendly and helpful but Janna and I started to wonder how these expensive brands are going to survive?

At Gucci shop Amsterdam

Below: Janna in Gucci’s chic fitting room. She wasn’t trying anything on; these clothes are hers. Love the boots.

Janna in the dressing room of Gucci

Below: Over to the Dior shop. What a fun display with the little man, carrying all those boxes. The yellow ‘book tote’ is from a new line created by Jonathan Anderson. The tote size 36 x 31.5 x 14 cm will cost you € 3,000 and is made from cotton and calf leather.

At Dior

Below: This is the front of the tote after the book Dracula by Bram Stoker. I am comparing it with my all-leather tote by Marina Rinaldi, snatched up at the Max Mara outlet in Turin. The Dior one is fun, but too pricey for a ‘fun’ piece which will get dirty easily. The expression on my face had nothing to do with the price as I didn’t know it at the time. I am probably asking Janna “What did you say??”

My tote versus Dior tote

Below: In front of the Hermès shop. We did go in but I didn’t take any photos.

Big fluffy cardigan

Below: If my photos are taken without a coat, then so will Janna’s haha. Fair is fair. Great bag. She is wearing leggings and swears they are back in fashion.

Janna of Timelessstyle.nl

Below: Loewe has a good shop too. I love their belts. I have one which wasn’t cheap but they have gone significantly up in price since then. What hasn’t?
I loved the jacket in the window.

At Loewe

Below: It isn’t easy to see but those Loewe jeans are sooo good and great for my body shape. I looked them up online (WHY?? 🙄 😆) and the jeans are € 1,100. I shouldn’t have bothered.

At Loewe

Below: Back in the restaurant for lunch and to see whether the photos we had taken, were OK. I am getting really annoyed with the hairpiece but haven’t got the time to go back to the salon. It will have to wait.

Checking the photos on the camera

It was an exercise which was fun because I was with Janna and we had a good time together, but I will not be going to this street again. I have no business there.

Below: Only one magnificent building in Amsterdam in this post.

Beautiful old building

Below: Walking back home from the station I thought you might like this statue. It says on the statue: “During the siege of Haarlem by Spanish troops from the 1st of December 1572 to the 12th of July 1573 the city resisted heroically for months. Captain Wigbolt Ripperda (1535-1573) led the defence of the city and Kenau Simonsdochter Hasselaer (1526-1588) was ascribed the important role of leader of a regiment of women in defence of the city.”

Statue Ripperda and Hasselaer

What happened in my life this week

Dog walking…a lot of dog walking. Starting with 20 minutes at half past 7 in the morning, then an hour at half past 10, another hour at 4 o’clock and 10 minutes at half past 6 in the evening. Did I mention it is cold in the Netherlands? Yes, I did.

Below: At the beach with Watson, in the rain and wind. Watson doesn’t mind the cold at all, he even goes into the water. I am looking at my watch every 5 or 10 minutes to see whether the hour has nearly passed.

Walking dog Watson at the beach in the rain

Then again, on days that there is little wind and a bit of sunshine, you get to see wonderful things too.

Below: Deer in a park. I was still freezing my fingers off, taking photos but it was worth it.

Deer in the park

Below: This robin was quite far away so the photo isn’t too sharp. In first instance I threw the photo away, thinking I hadn’t caught the robin. Such good camouflage.

Robin

Below: I liked this fallen tree too, pointing at the horizon. In our parks they usually leave the fallen trees lying as they give home to so many creatures.

In the park

Below: A goose. At first, I put it on Instagram the way I took the photo, wide with the goose in the centre. Then Ron saw it and guided me to this cropped version. Much better. My photographer’s eye is still not there. Mind you, I got the reflection.

Goose

Update on Ron

Ron is doing fine with his broken wrist. We went back to the hospital for a check and the ‘plaster master’ (that is her title) cut the first aid plaster off and put a state-of-the-art wrap around his arm. As she was about to put the colourful, sticky bandage on, Ron said “Shouldn’t you put the wet plaster on it before you apply the bandage?” She turned round, looked at him and said “Oh, you are an expert now?” That was so unexpected, I burst into a loud guffaw. We had such fun with that nurse, not at all what I expected that afternoon. Anyway, just another week and he shouldn’t feel any pain anymore. After four weeks this ‘plaster’ will also be removed and then he has to exercise his arm for another 4 weeks.

I was very pleased that the photos of his wrist operation 20 years ago were compared to the new photos, and showed there were no complications. It took me about 8 calls before I got the confirmation that the old photos had digitally arrived at the proper destination. I never leave it alone in such matters.

The silliness of dieting

A loyal reader of my posts brought to my attention that my frequent lamenting about trying to lose weight, might give off the wrong vibe. And when she explained it, it hit me how right she is.
I am on the skinny side of an average weight. So, if I am saying over and over again, I have to lose weight, should not eat cakes, try and hide my belly etc., how does that affect women who are more “soft and squishy” as this reader affectionately put it.

I have never thought about this effect. But it is true. From now on, I will refrain from such statements. It might bring women to think there is something wrong with them and there is not. All sizes are good, all shapes are good. For the record, I never diet. Dieting leads to highs and lows in weight, a never-ending story. I balance. If I gain 2 kilos, I will stop putting every sweet in my mouth that I see and go back to healthy, low calorie meals, and no sweets. Because 2 kilos is so little, I will lose them within a week. Lots of exercise helps with that. The only reason why I am so strict with my balancing is the vast amount of clothes in my wardrobe. I want to keep on fitting into them.

Till next week.

Greetje

No Fear of Fashion

46 responses to “Big fluffy cardigan”

  1. I would never pay designer prices for clothes, but that black floral print shirt at Gucci is gorgeous! Luckily I can sew, so I’m on a hunt to find a similar print! Thanks for the inspiration. 😃

    1. Sometimes these fashion houses allow certain fabric stores to sell some of their fabrics. You might get lucky.

  2. Motivation to stay in one’s clothes is huge! Didn’t stop me from putting some weight on, but eh, I just don’t care right now. Sorry to hear about Ron’s wrist! My mum had a fall last week, and it’s been very stressful dealing with all the health authorities to get things set up for her, as she lives alone.
    I love that you had a day visiting the chi-chi shops – I can’t be bothered with them. So much of their clothes are polyester!
    Your photos are lovely – I like the one with Watson in the far distance.

    1. After you lost so much weight, I thought you’d stay that way. But if it doesn’t interest you any longer, fine too. Not having nice cakes anymore isn’t all it is cracked up to be either.
      Tough times for your mother and for you. Distance makes everything so much harder. In the Netherlands it is reasonably easy to get help. OK, a lot of administration work and you might have to wait a bit, but often it is dealt with fast (and for free). Hope everything is now OK for you.
      Those expensive shops aren’t for me either. I cannot be bothered with what they sell. Watson is always a show stealer.

  3. Greetje,

    I’m not going to even get into the subject of weight….but I will mention that, here in the USA, I frequently watch “International House Hunters” (especially like Floer, how do you spell her name?) when she/new residents to into Harlem and Amsterdam. Your cities are both gorgeous but I’m shocked at the rental prices! The stairs are another thing but it probably gives the residents the exercise they might need…whew! I appreciate the gorgeous pictures you include about your gorgeous city/country!

    1. The rental prices are outrageous and the price for buying a house as well. Actually in all big cities although Amsterdam is the limit. I always think “this must crash one day” but so far the prices are at an extreme level. Young people cannot afford to buy a house or rent one so ‘keep on living with your parents’ is a big thing now. Neither the parents nor the young ones want this. There are several reasons why this has happened. To reverse it, is very difficult.
      The steep stairs in Amsterdam? They can be dangerously high with small steps. It is because 1) we don’t have much room (ground) in the Netherlands so you don’t and didn’t build wide but high. Just a bit over 18 million people live in the Netherlands of which 950,000 in Amsterdam. And it is a small country.

  4. I’m so proud of you for being responsive to your reader’s comments regarding discussing dieting and weight. We are in the midst of a significant shift when it comes to bodies, sizes, etc and how we talk about them. I recognize that I’ll sometimes feel prickly when my son points out when I’m saying things that are problematic on this front (think Gen X v Gen Z — heh), but honestly he’s right. A person’s weight is almost always the least interesting thing about them! I do love how well you know your own shape and dress it well. Huzzah for being open minded and continuing to grow and learn. You’re the best.

    1. Oh thank you very much. That is a lovely compliment. My former boss (young and female) used to say the same thing about me. She said: “When I point out to you that something you do or say is not correct, you think about it and come back with the promise to change that behaviour. (Perhaps she also added that at first I start defending myself and discarding the accusation etc haha). But when I had slept on it, and thought she was right, why wouldn’t I want to change?
      The fact I know my shape and how to dress it comes from a passion for clothes. When you are passionate about something, you see gaining information about the subject not as work but as pleasure.

  5. The cardigan is really fun and I love the matching brooch with it.

    I’m glad Ron is healing up well! Broken bones at our age are no laughing matter.

    While I enjoy looking at high-end goods, these days it’s primarily for ideas. At one time, you could expect the quality to be above average, but I don’t think that’s true anymore. (I love my Loewe pieces, but won’t be buying any more.) I think you can find some interesting and unique pieces from smaller brands at a fraction of the what the designers charge.

    1. I so agree with everything you say. Remember that yellow top I bought in Milan? Not the one I had made at Toosh, but the one I bought in that little shop? Perfect example of sustainable, high quality garment for a fair price. Since I know that Dior buys their bags for €59 and sells them at €2,500 or more, I will never buy a high-end bag.

  6. When I was in Amsterdam I quickly found out that street wasn’t for me and my bank account. It was fun to window shop. 🙂
    On myself I like twin sets (cardigan and matching under layer). I keep a few warm cardigans for wearing when I’m cold.
    I’m glad Ron is healing well and shows no complications from his past surgery.

    1. There are people who look dead gorgeous in a cardigan. I am not one of them, but you apparently are.
      I didn’t even like the window shopping in that street. It screams “Expensive and you cannot afford it”.

  7. As a cardigan lover myself, I think yours is lovely!. Totally understand that cardigans are not your thing, but there are many different shapes!. I love particularly the colours in that one, and the brooch you pinned to it, which is so appropriate!
    I’m always suspicious when visiting any posh shop (usually with Mom), as I’m prejudiced against rich people (shame on me!). Frequently my prejudices have been confirmed, but I’m glad that you met some friendly people!. Always lovely when shop assistants are friendly even when they know you’re not a costumer!
    Your friend also looks very elegant and cool!, totally agree her boots are Fab!
    besos

    1. The colours were probably the reason why I bought it. And the brooch being appropriate was something I only realised when I saw the photos haha.
      I am the same with rich people but as it so happens, I have a few really rich people in my circle of friends and they are all so nice. So yes, it is a prejudice.
      Janna’s bag was great too. She totally looked the part for this street.

  8. Linda Henderson Avatar

    I agree on cardigans. I rarely find one I want and I especially don’t care for the short style. I am rarely in an area that has the upscale shops that you photographed but I would enjoy just looking. Glad Ron is progressing nicely. Just think of all the good exercise you are getting, thanks to good dog, Watson.

    1. Indeed Linda, the exercise is doing me good. And being in nature is always a good thing. But the cold….

  9. Thank you for another great post Greetje, wearing your gangsta teeshirt in Gucci 👌

    I respectfully have to disagree about the weight thing though. I think it’s an important discussion for pre/post menopausal women to share. I don’t seem to look any different, but lately my clothes have felt tight, even around the arms. I don’t like it one little bit and I feel I should be allowed to say that.

    It’s unavoidable, as we age that little bit of weight keeps creeping up and in our mind we believe we will get back into our ‘skinny’ clothes. Im very tall and very slim, lately when I lean forward I have to look down as it feels like I’ve got my jumper bunched up around my tummy. It’s always been ironing-board flat, and now there’s this…thing! It feels weird and squishy and I know I’ll have to get used to it I guess, Im still at the stage it’s depressing 😞

    Kids today have their own issues, but as a teenager in the early 90’s we were up against those darn supermodels! Those ladies who used to say they ate a healthy diet to stay slim, and now admit they were running on amphetamines, cigarettes and coffee. It was hard to try and look like them. Despite being skinny and tall, we went through a phase of dieting (cabbage soup diet 😩), we used to teach each other vomiting tips, we even tried eating toilet roll before meals as we heard Twiggy did that 😂

    Fast forward to adulthood I learned to be happy with my body on the whole. But like yourself, there’s ALWAYS that feeling that if could just lose 2 kilos it would be better. If I had a magic wand now and offered all the women in this group a magic 2 kilos loss…I’ll bet most would take it!

    Greetje you are kind and sweet and openly honest. If you worry a little about your weight, you have every right to say that. Personally I find it comforting that it’s not just me who, despite being a normal weight, feels this way.

    Before you self-edit, ask yourself the question, is it my truth and do I mean to offend anyone else? I think we all know the answer.

    Ask ANY therapist or psychologist and they will tell you, none of us are responsible for other people’s feelings, only our own. Your commenter is kind in trying to protect others’ feelings, but now here’s me giving you the opposing argument, that I find it refreshing and reassuring.

    And the truth is that you probably shouldn’t listen to either of us 😂

    What if I told you I was upset because my dog died and offended by you posting cute pictures of Watson…would you stop posting? I hope not 😁

    Best regards from London xx

    1. Well, Sarah Jane, you gave a strong argument. Up till your comment I was sticking to “No, I won’t talk about losing 2 kilos anymore”, but I do see your point too. Very strong argument. Applause. Laughed over your sentence “You probably shouldn’t listen to either of us” haha. I will do the opposite, I will listen to both of you. I can tackle issues like gaining weight at menopause and still not add further heartache to curvy women who have been bullied all their life for being so. Mind you, menopause for me is already a long time ago.
      The things you did in the early 90’s…crazy. I never did that, I was skinny as hell: 52 kilos being 1m75 tall. No curve in sight.
      Going back to menopause and that roll of fat around your waist…it was 7 cm in my case and I didn’t have a waist to start with. I had it sucked. Now, isn’t that bad for a ‘role model’ (hahaha, as if I am). The fat never came back but my waist is now a bit crooked, not in line. It shows with wearing belts. That’s my punishment for undergoing an unnecessary operation. But I’d do it again.

  10. Hi Greetje,
    Love your cardigan, fab colors, really suits you (mind you what doesnt!) These hand knitted cardigans are having a moment here in the UK after a lady appearing on ‘The Traitors’ wore some very expensive but very exquisite similar cardigans!
    Also love Jannas tartan coat.
    Dont worry about mentioning weight, surely we are all old enough to know our body shape and when we need to cut down!

    1. There is a brand in the Netherlands with hand-knitted fabulous cardigans. They are in a different league, but still, I am not a cardigan woman.
      About the weight…yes, I know that a lot of people know when to cut down. But there are women who are just born curvaceous and although looking good, were bullied. If you have been told to lose weight your whole life, than that will do something to your self-esteem. And I don’t want to add to that, how unintentionally it may be. It is not a big thing in my writing, so it is easy not to write about it.

  11. A little story from my one visit to Amsterdam. I had read up on some shopping places, and the street you filmed on came up. It was near our hotel, so I dressed in fairly plain clothes and enjoyed window shopping in 2021. There were queues to get into most stores, it was very busy, and I remember the very high-end cars driving up and down with beautiful people in them!! I don’t have the budget to shop at high-end boutiques, even though I did consider a Hermès scarf and sometimes wish I had purchased it. I did not know about the upstairs in Dior! Lonchamp bags were very popular then. I did purchase a bag at the Longchamp boutique, a bag I still use today. It was probably one of the least expensive things in that shopping area!! It took me quite a while to decide on a color. I was one of the few in the store, and the salespeople were so nice and treated me very well, and then wrapped the bag beautifully, and gave me all the paperwork for customs. Then, I forgot to do the paperwork at the airport. It was fun to read your blog, and I too, love the shape and colors of your cardigan. I hope Ron’s wrist heals perfectly!

    1. Longchamp is a good brand with beautiful bags at a reasonable price level. Mind you, I can say that because I have a comfortable income. But it is not as insane as Dior, Gucci, Hermes or the others. Glad you had a good purchase. Every time you use it, it might remind you about a happy trip. Too bad you forgot the paperwork at customs. Could have happened to me too.
      People certainly aren’t queuing up anymore. And Ron’s wrist is healing well.

  12. I once “shopped” in a high end store in Miami, until I stepped back and fell into the assistant who, un-beknown to me, had been silently following me around the store. Never again!!

    1. Whahahaha…so funny. Just right for her. I had an assistant following me in an expensive shop once too. She was disguising her spying by lifting a piece of clothing off the table, folding it again and putting it back. And every time I pulled something from the rack she would comment “Oh, isn’t that lovely??? Gorgeous isn’t it?” Yeah, as if you are going to trash your own goods. I left the shop.

  13. Janna Timelessstyle Avatar
    Janna Timelessstyle

    Lieve Greetje
    Jouw ontmoetingen zijn altijd echt een experience. Door wie je bent , hoe je naar dingen kijkt en je gevoel voor humor
    Dank je
    Blij je met jou in contact gekomen te zijn

    1. Ahh…wat een lief compliment. Werd er helemaal verlegen van. Dank je wel. Enne, ik denk er omgekeerd hetzelfde over.

  14. Beautiful cardigan, warm and colorful. I think the outfit with the jeans is very cute. I love the Gucci dress; the print is gorgeous. I like your photo with the glasses on; it gives you a very interesting look.

    1. I agree that the cardigan is really nice (and warm, and colourful) but it isn’t me anymore. Actually cardigans were never me.
      The floral Gucci dress is indeed gorgeous, very elegant (not me anymore either. Alas.)
      I chose the black glasses because I found them rather cool, a bit arty.

  15. I had to laugh – eccos are quite pricey in New Zealand, where I live😀

    1. Oops, my bad. But I can tell you, they are nowhere near the price of sneakers in that expensive shopping street. High end designers like Dior will ask 2,000NZD for a pair. That is what I call pricey. And will have looked down on my eccos.

  16. Wendy in Northern California Avatar
    Wendy in Northern California

    That cardigan is fabulous on you! The colors are flattering and it shows off your long, slender legs. The choice of brooch was an inspired choice for this outing and perfect for the outfit. I feel for you on the dog walking in that cold, it looks miserable. I’m certain Ron is planning something special in thanks for your hard work. Glad to hear the x-rays showed no damage to the previous work he had done.

    1. Thanks Wendy, but the cardigan doesn’t feel like me anymore even though the colours are good. I will show Ron your comment, just to stimulate his thinking about a thank-you haha.

  17. I’m on the thinner side of average and have been told I’m “not allowed” to say I’d like to lose a few pounds. Loyal readers surely realize your blog is about your own personal life. You neither brag about being thin nor make unflattering comments about heavier women. We readers are responsible for our own feelings. I love your blog just the way it is.

    1. I agree with what you are writing, but I also realise that life for some people is harder than for others. If you have a more curvy body but have been told ALL THE TIME, even by strangers, that you need to lose weight, your self-esteem must have suffered. There is no need for me to add to that, how unintentionally as it may be. It is not a big issue to leave this out, not something that will influence the quality of my posts. So, if I can avoid hurting people, I will gladly do so. As a child I have been bullied for being thin. Actually, the subject didn’t really matter. I was the kind of person (still am) who takes the bate every time. Such fun for teasers. But even though I could have easily given back a similar rotten remark about their appearance I never did. Because our appearance is not something we have intentionally done to ourselves, it is how we were born. If we could have created ourselves, the majority of us would have created a different being.
      Sorry, that my reply is so lengthy and deep, but I wanted to explain why I responded to my reader’s remark and at the same time, I get your comment too.

  18. Catherine @ Coastal BC Avatar
    Catherine @ Coastal BC

    Like Bette, I immediately thought of Pretty Woman regarding snooty saleswomen in high end shops. So funny!
    But that , happily, wasn’t the case for you and Janna. I checked out her Instagram from your link…very stylish lady with a gorgeous smile! When I was briefly in Milan , I did wander through the beautiful Vittorio Emanuele ll arcade. The floor tiles and ceilings were magnificent , but so disappointed by only extremely posh shops. Of no interest to me. Left soon after and found a cute boutique around the corner from the Duomo where I bought a lovely and affordable summer dress.
    Regarding how we view our own bodies…. I am somewhat disappointed that , once feeling much better physically and emotionally after my 2024 divorce, the weight loss I thought as a positive…the ‘divorce diet’ … was not to last… my travel with wonderful meals and too many indulgences perhaps added a few pounds. I am quite fit at 75 with Pilates, walking and water workouts, but am somewhat softer around my middle and thighs…sigh. Can there not be a happy medium ? Anyway, I am being kind to myself and with a few more salads and definitely limiting sweets , I hope for a steady loss over the next few months. Like you, it’s about how my clothes fit.
    There are lots of lovely things which must be worn as spring comes.

    1. I know all about the shops in the Vittorio Emanuelle arcade. Posh, expensive and empty.
      As for the clothes to fit, I often giggled about the fact that something so simple as clothes needing to fit can get you into a life of balancing. There is something good coming from it.

  19. Re high-end stores, I keep the scene from Pretty Woman in mind — “Big mistake. Big. Huge! Oh, well, I have to go shopping!”

    1. You are right, they should know by now never to judge the credibility of a customer by their looks. But I think they still do. I remember having bought a skirt suit at Dolce & Gabbana (my rich days) and the skirt needed to be altered. As I walked towards the door after the fitting, 4 sales girls, being very young, looked me up and down and their faces clearly showed I didn’t pass the bar. Never shopped there again.

  20. Hi Greetje omg that dollar sign necklace and wearing it at Gucci and Hermes is hilarious!! So very perfect. I am sure they were happy you were in their stores as, in effect, you are an influencer and viewed by many so terrific free advertising for them. An exception to the rich people is Melinda Gates who is quickly giving away all her money to help so many. Happy Ron is healing well. You are a loving wife and good sport to walk Watson.

    1. Somehow, I don’t think my report on the expensive stores is going to give them more clients haha.
      You are right about Melinda Gates. Kudos for her.
      I am a loving wife indeed and a lot of years ago I signed a contract at the registry office to help and support him in sickness and in health. You should always read the fine print first haha.

  21. Greetje, you look so cold in that beach photo! I don’t enter high-end shops. The prices insult me! I loved he photo of the fallen tree. I enjoy reading your comments about not eating cake or whatever. You’re human. I understand that people are touchy about the subject of weight, but frankly people are now easily offended by anything. It’s the world that we live in, and I suppose it’s for the better, but at times it seems ridiculous. I’m glad that Ron is improving. I hope that your weather improves as well.
    Kathleen

    1. I was cold Kathleen, really cold, on that chilly beach, but one survives.
      As for the weight issues, I’d rather not offend someone if I can help it. There is no need for it and it is an easy adjustment on my part. It is difficult to see what hurts someone else, but this I can understand. I just never thought about it. Ron is healing fine and the weather has been splendid this weekend. Won’t keep, I bet.

  22. I love reading about your day walks. The cardigan is so beautiful on you and matching brooch.
    Waiting for where you take us next time and what you will wear. Love your blog.

    1. That is so good to read Audrey, thank you very much. I showed my husband photos I had taken this afternoon, walking the dog and said that I would be posting them on Instagram. He thought they were totally uninteresting. I think he is right, they were a bit boring, but I posted them anyway haha.

  23. Lovely post, so cozy in your cardigan. I feel out of place in a fancy shop, very uncomfortable. I like your friends leggings, I still wear them mainly at home and exercising. Keeping control of your weight is okay, it’s all about health at our age, but exercise is the answer not food in my book. I also think if your clothes are tight is a good way of accessing if you need to lose weight. I know women come in all shapes and sizes but these are my own rules but can understand if you may offend some. Remember you can’t please everybody so just please yourself 🤣

    1. You are right Irene, I cannot please everybody, but I can think about my writing and actions. And if I can avoid hurting people I will always do so.
      My motto is: My freedom ends where it invades somebody elses freedom.

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