Patterned pink skirt with a black shirt

Pink patterned skirt with a black shirt
Pink patterned skirt with a black shirt

Isn’t it great when you can style a beautiful piece of clothing multiple ways? Pinching the ideas of a stylist on Instagram, here is the patterned skirt with a black shirt. (See the post with the first styling of the skirt and a yellow top.)

In the old days (before 2012 or perhaps a few years later), I used to buy an outfit in a shop, styled by the shop assistant, approved by me and hung in my wardrobe as a set. My friend Anja was so surprised when she first discovered that. She asked: “But, don’t you combine the separate items with other items in your wardrobe to make new combinations?” My answer was “No”. As I didn’t have a clue how.

My passion for clothes plus blogging has changed this. Often, I copy an idea from another blogger or Instagram woman but more and more I will come up with new combinations myself. The problem has always been (and probably still is), that out of all the combinations with a piece of clothing, I will find one styling is perfect. And the other combinations are good too. But why would I want to wear anything less than perfect? Mind you, with this skirt it is a toss-up.

Below: Marjolein and I were on our way from the Leiden train station to the city centre, passing this beautiful building.

Beautiful building in Leiden

Below: Next-door were similar buildings and one of them had the doors open. That’s what I call elaborate decorating and I am not referring to myself LOL.

Pink patterned skirt with a black shirt

Below: Marjolein thought that the flowers were too good to pass up as background.

Pink patterned skirt with a black shirt

Below: At another restaurant, overlooking a canal we had our delicious cappuccino. Marjolein striking a pose.

Marjolein having coffee

Below: Close-up of Marjolein’s earring.

Earring Marjolein

Below: Oh, how Dutch…a mill.
In the water, in front of the mill, there are two ‘harps’. Their strings are created by water.

Mill at canal Leiden

Below: I thought it was an imaginative use of the water.

Pink patterned skirt with a black shirt

Below: Marjolein in a pink outfit. The trousers have a fun oblique closure.

Marjolein

Below: One of some girls sitting by the water, asked whether we would like a picture of us together. Of course, we would.

Marjolein and me

Below: As I said in last week’s post…old cities in the Netherlands always have canals and Leiden is an old city. I like it that they put so many hanging flowers everywhere.
The shoes look high, but they aren’t really as you can see below.
I bought them years ago from a highly sustainable brand (Bellamy Gallery) which didn’t survive in the end. After some successful years they nearly went bankrupt and were taken over by another clothes brand which is continuing only a small amount of the selection.

Pink patterned skirt with a black shirt

Below: We suddenly found a big chess board, near some sort of art museum. Marjolein said “You know how to start a chess game, don’t you?” I vaguely remembered starting with a white pawn the few times I played with my father.

Pink patterned skirt with a black shirt

Below: Onwards along other canals.

Houses in Leiden

Below: We passed the Rijksmuseum van Oudheden (National Museum of Antiquities) where they have a permanent world-famous Egyptian collection, called Egypt and Nubia. We took a little peek inside but didn’t buy a ticket. This Temple of Taffeh was in the hall.
Yes, I did have my photo taken while standing in one of the entrances, but I didn’t really like it.

Egyptian exhibition at Rijksmuseum van Oudheden in Leiden

Below: While walking on, we arrived at a castle. Castle Het Gravensteen, built in the 13th century. The link will take you to Wikipedia for more information, but it is only available in Dutch.

Castle Het Gravensteen in Leiden

Below: This is the back of Castle Gravesteen. Usually, I delete everything from a photo that I don’t like. Such as road signs, cigarette butts and plastic cups. This time I left the hideous new building on the right in the photo. Who gave permission to build that?!

On the square opposite the front of the castle was a restaurant with a large terrace facing the south. As it was hot, we were on the look-out for a terrace in the shade. Funny, how that has changed so quickly.

Below: The square in front of the castle is called Gerecht (Court) where the executions used to take place. All peace and quiet now.

Pink patterned skirt with a black shirt

There were also sweet little houses.

Below: I saw the enamel signs (private) on the benches and said to Marjolein “Have the camera ready, then I will sit down, you take a quick shot and I will immediately rise”.
You know how many times I have been shooed away.
I get it though, it is a lovely Bed and Breakfast and you don’t want a bunch of people, drinking beer in front of your house.

Pink patterned skirt with a black shirt

Below: A few metres further, another pretty house. Over the door it says “Het dertiende gerecht”. The word ‘gerecht’ can mean two things in Dutch, either court or dish.
At first I thought it meant the ‘The Thirteenth Dish’ and that it used to be a restaurant. Then I thought it had something to do with the square ‘Court’. Nope…neither is true.


‘Het Dertiende Gerecht’ is indeed ‘The Thirteenth Dish’. It is a historical term referring to a ritual or practice that took place during the Siege of Leiden in 1574 by the Spanish. It involves the hungry city dwellers, after eating the last of their provisions, “leading” or “performing” a thirteenth, symbolic dish as a kind of ceremony of despair and loss. It was a way to symbolize the approaching end and the lack of food, even before the city was liberated. Leiden still celebrates the liberation of their city every year on the 3rd of October.

House in Leiden

Below: Another bench session, exposing the soles of my shoes. A no-no in photographer’s land.

Pink patterned skirt with a black shirt

Below: We had lunch in a restaurant along a canal (so many of them) with view of this fountain.

Fountain in Leiden

Below: Leiden city hall and it is only a part of it. It is at least twice as wide. This is the side on Breestraat, which is a shopping street. Equals danger for me. Sure enough, I bought a pair of blue trousers in the sale.

Part of town hall Leiden

Below: A flower shop on Breestraat, called Faas est. 2016.

Building in Leiden

Below: It was time for tea or coffee again when we passed restaurant Saigon garden. They are situated in a beautiful building and were advertising with a secluded garden at the back. At the end of the corridor to the garden, was this pretty stained-glass window. On the left you see the window from the inside out and on the right from the outside in.

Stained glass window at Restaurant Saigon garden Leiden

Below: It was indeed a heavenly garden, so quiet. There were no other visitors. I took a photo of the back and saw the colourful lanterns through the window so I hurried inside.

Restaurant Saigon garden Leiden

We ordered cappuccino which was awful, far too much milk. We didn’t drink it. You shouldn’t order an Italian product at a Vietnamese restaurant now, should you? The treat that came with the coffee was beyond excellent though.

Below: Marjolein. We were on our way home.

Marjolein walking through the streets of Leiden

A splendid day.

What happened in my life this week

A meeting with Marita (below) on an extremely hot day. It was humid and oppressive. I was soaking with sweat even though my outfit was airy. Having a hairpiece doesn’t help, I agree. I can handle high temperatures wearing the hairpiece without a problem, but this was extreme. I had chosen a restaurant with a terrace and big old trees for shade.

Below: Doesn’t Marita look beautiful? And those earrings are the bomb with this dress.

A Pride Parade with so many people passed the terrace, demonstrating for equal rights and recognition of LGBTQIA+ people, which I support wholeheartedly.
Below: After they passed the terrace they all went to a gathering place nearby.

Pride Haarlem 2025

While I was with Marita, Ron had another little project. Froukje (a few doors down in our street) and Ron were designing the garden for one of Froukje’s friends. They have “done” our garden, my bonus daughter’s garden and now Froukje’s friend’s. We are all very pleased with the result.
Below: Ron had gone to Froukje to cut pictures and create a mood board for Froukje’s friend to visualize what the garden would look like. She sent me this photo with the text:
“We have Ron at day care. Will you pick him up, later on?” I burst out laughing really loud, the whole terrace was in shock.

Ron at 'daycare'

One day, cycling to town, I saw that Greetje (my namesake) was back at a particular restaurant, although it was only for one day. She is a really good waitress and I know her since 1995 when she worked at another place. (See this post with her, scroll down a bit.) I immediately got off my bike and went in for a cappuccino and a chat. Nice woman.

Greetje, my namesake

Below: One of my outfits this week, my blue and pink striped dress (link to original post):

Blue and pink striped dress

Below: And another outfit from this week. I didn’t have the energy to come up with a new combination. Just changed the shoes for trainers and kept the accessories green with a touch of orange.
Link to post with these trousers and white shirt,
Link to post with these trousers, cream top and blue and green accessories,
Link to post with these trousers, a yellow jumper and high heels (which I think is stunning).

Grey summer trousers

Poor Ron took ill on Monday and stayed in bed for a couple of days. (He is recovering now, no worries.)

Ron being ill meant I had to take care of him (he lay in bed most of the time, so that wasn’t much of a task) and walk the dog for 2 long walks and 2 short walks every day. Not my kind of fun thing to do, but I still enjoyed it. Below: Watson chasing a seagull. The photo is not too sharp as it was far away.

Dog Watson chasing a seagull at the beach

When I was out and about, I executed the assignment my friend Katrien (see this post with the beautiful street art) had given me. She is such a good photographer and she is passing her knowledge on to me, trying to develop my photographer’s eye. First assignment was “take photos of circles”. It is amazing how many circles you suddenly start seeing everywhere. It is fun.
Below: 4 photos I took. Count yourself lucky it’s only 4 as I took 45. You will all live to regret you said “Never too many photos”. LOL

Photo assignment circles Signs at the beach
Photo assignment circles Iron sign at the beach
Photo assignment circles Hydrangea through scissors
Photo assignment circles Glass table

Let’s stop this post here, don’t you think? Long enough.

Greetje

No Fear of Fashion

27 responses to “Patterned pink skirt with a black shirt”

  1. Dear Greetje, sorry for my absence from the comments on this post. I spent a few days hiking in the high mountains and sleeping in shelters without internet coverage. Of course, I love this skirt, its volume, this print, this feminine and elegant structure. It looks so cute with the black shirt, and I love your two-tone shoes. Marjolein’s earrings are adorable. As always, a magnificent post, full of class and style, and you look very elegant and beautiful.

    1. And full of old houses, old city. I knew you would love this post.

  2. That last picture of the table is awesome, Greetje!
    I LOVE that beautiful skirt you have on. I find skirts like that difficult to style, so I completely get that you like sticking to your tried-and-true formula for it. It’s easy enough to do a white shirt or a black shirt – I tend to add a graphic tee to a skirt like that to contrast with the feminine pattern/colors/shape.
    The picture of Ron in day-care is hilarious! I’m glad he’s recovering.

    I so enjoy your pictures of you and your friends exploring! Thank you!

    1. The photo of the table was my own idea…whoop whoop.
      I am no longer sticking to my tried and true formula anymore. I used to but I have become braver.
      There is one more styling of the skirt which I also really like. To be shown in the near future.
      Ron in day-care still has me in stitches.

  3. Linda Henderson Avatar
    Linda Henderson

    The patterned skirt with black top is so pretty on you. The shoes are perfect with it. You outdid yourself this time. Very pretty photos of the buildings and neighborhoods. I laughed at the caption of Ron at daycare. He looks very into his work. Fun! Always good to see Watson too.

    1. It was the look of concentration on Ron’s face that did it for me. He was indeed very into his work.
      Glad you liked the outfit. I didn’t come up with myself, only the shoes, belt, earrings, bracelet and bag are my doing. The skirt and shirt I have copied. Nothing wrong with that, right?

  4. Love the skirt, too bad I am too short to wear it. O Greetje I have the same problem with clothes, I buy a ready outfit and I should mix and match with other pieces but I think the original is the best and I am stuck. Hope I learn. Keep the pictures coming Holland is beautiful. You and your lady friends are very stylish and pleasure to copy your style.

    1. I hope I can give you lots of inspiration. Others inspired me to and I learned from them. It is still not my favourite pastime which surprises me as well, giving my blog. But there is no assistant in my house to clean up the mess I make.
      It doesn’t always work but I have more outfits now which are a combination of items already in my wardrobe. Especially last year, when I challenged myself to only buy 10 new pieces of clothing that year, I had to work with what was already in my closets. I ended up buying 17 as I fell of the wagon at the end of September. Still not bad, given my past shopping behaviour haha.

  5. The pink patterned skirt looks equally good with both the shirts/blouses you wore. Such lovely pics again and you had perfect weather with blue skies and no clouds.

    1. Yes, that skirt is a good buy. When the weather is this sunny, we have to look for shadow places as photos taken in bright sunlight are awful.

  6. You always have the cutest stories dear Greetje…. I loved tbe one about picking up Ron from day care… too funny…
    Wishing you a fabulous weekend.
    Yvonne xxx

    1. The joke of Ron and day care wasn’t a joke I came up with but Froukje. I thought it was too funny not to put it in the post.

  7. I love the wonderful photo of you in front of the flowers that compliment your pink skirt while the black design in the chairs echoes your black blouse. Your hair and posture and expression are all perfect, too!

    1. That photo was Marjolein’s idea. She saw the chairs and the flowers and made the connection. My hair is a lot better thanks to the hairpiece, my posture has improved by 25%. I am still working on it. If I forget during a photo shoot, Marjolein will remind me (“stand straight!!”). The expression on my face is something I have been practicing for 12 1/2 years now haha.

  8. The lovely little house with the private benches out front, on which you discreetly perched must be shaded by a Linden Tree- I recognize those winged little leaves only too well. I really enjoy when you reference parts of an outfit back to previous posts which were before I found your blog. Your are certainly reusing your clothes wisely and remaining trim as well- the grey trousers posts went back over 5 years ago and all your choices worked well. I love the bright yellow capris with that bright patterend shirt- I am sure you have used it again as well. The pink skirt is a classic and you look so confident in it. Enjoy the heat, it really doesn’t stay with us too long, and your garden must be a cool refuge. Keep Ron healthy he is a lovely man.

    1. Thanks for telling me this about reference parts of outfits in previous posts. I often wondered whether I did that just for myself or was somebody actually clicking on them? I know I should be able to see there were people clicking on a particular post, but I am too lazy to keep track of that. The bright yellow capris are actually a pain in the neck. I cannot wear them enough. They are tough to style.
      I still have clothes from 10 years ago, although I will say I don’t use them as much anymore. My extensive wardrobe (there is an understatement) has always been the reason I kept my weight the same. The idea I cannot wear one of my treasures because I have gone a size up…horror.
      Of course, in time that has happened but not a lot.

  9. Kathleen Johnson Avatar
    Kathleen Johnson

    Your photos are never enough! The joy that is within you is shared with all of your readers! Kathleen

    1. When I post that many photos, I hear my late friend Pat’s words in my head: “How many photos of yourself do you need? Are you narcissistic?” She was my best friend and she didn’t mean it. It was her way of teasing me. I miss her so.

  10. I loved the pic of Ron in “day care.” I burst out laughing like you did. So sorry to hear he was not well. Glad he has recovered.
    Your hair looks lovely in the shots with the skirt. I’m not sure if you did it differently, but it looks very thick and full.
    Have a lovely week. We will be in the 100’s F here in the southern USA. Wish I were in the Netherlands !

    1. Oh good…I made you laugh. That’s my goal with this blog. To entertain, make people smile, perhaps even laugh. Mission accomplished as far as you are concerned. My hair did look good. Thanks to the hair piece. Which isn’t just banging it on your head and it is done but it is a whole lot better than my own thin hair where the light shines through.
      I hope you have a cool spot to hide yourself. In the 100’s F would be too much for me too.

  11. Love all your photos Greetje. There can never be too many.

    1. That’s very reassuring Sue. With this post I was a bit afraid I had overplayed my hand. Thanks.

  12. Hello, You

    Your circle pics are great, very innovative. Isn’t it surprising what you can see when you really look around? Check out your home for instance, and you’ll lose count of the number of ’roundies’ all over the place. (I know, I should get out more!)

    I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, like Anja, I just cannot believe that you never mixed and matched clothes until recently. I thought everyone did that! Buying a whole outfit was and still can be rather expensive over here and anyway, it’s always fun playing around with tops and bottoms. Still, you always look good, including this week; I particularly like your grey trousers and white shirt: very classy casual-chic.

    Thank you, as always, for the conducted tour – great photos – and the history lesson. I’m
    going to check that museum collection as Nubia’s on my bucket list…so many places, so little time (sigh).

    Glad Ron’s okay now. Was it your cooking?

    You have a good week
    Gee

  13. Really beautiful skirt and as you say, so versatile.
    Marjolein’s outfit is lovely,too.
    You are lucky to have such a willing co-worker/friend.

    1. Oh, you are so right there Lisa. I am very lucky to have such a willing “co-worker”/friend. And I know it and tell her.

  14. Really interesting as always. I love finding your posts. Also great circle photos. The clothes are gorgeous as ever. Trish S

    1. Oh thanks a bundly Trish. This time I thought the number of photos were an overkill, but hey…you lot said you didn’t mind. Give me an inch and I will take a yard. (In Dutch this saying is: give me a finger and I will take your whole hand.)

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